Friday, October 14, 2011

21 months and 19 weeks

Things have been busy in our world, but not blogging exciting, just plain busy.

Me: I'm at work four days a week now.  I miss my extra time at home with Claire, but I'm grateful that I had 21 months of only working three days a week.  It also means that my one day off during the week is packed with EI appointments, phone calls, shopping and anything else that comes up.  I'm adjusting to the new schedule, though I do feel more hurried and scattered, if that's even possible.  Claire doesn't mind the change at all.  She LOVES going to school/daycare, and can't get enough of her friends and the teachers.

I am just finishing up with a Hanen class too.  The class focuses on communication, not speech exactly, but teaches you how to interact with your child in a way that encourages them to take turns and have "conversations".  The program teaches you how to modify daily routines and play times to give your child more opportunities to communicate.  It's been a great class, and I'm glad I took it, but it's held two hours from home, on a weeknight.  Yet another long day!  I have one more class left and I'm bummed that it's over, but can't wait to have that evening at home again.

Claire:  Little miss is just doing wonderfully.  We are still celebrating her first steps, and we've been practicing whenever we have the chance.  She's taken a few more steps, but nothing quite as spectacular as in that PT appointment.  **Edited to add:  Last night I set her in the middle of the floor again and quite a few times she would walk between Darren and I with 3-4 steps!  :)

We are at a break in Claire's extra appointments, and that is very welcome.  I have a hearing re-screen set up for December, but otherwise nothing until her 2 year old (!!!) appointments in January.  We are busy enough with her weekly EI appointments and monthly private therapy that I don't have the energy for much else these days.

Claire's signing vocabulary continues to grow.  She has over 35 signs that she uses on her own, with quite a few more that she will mimic.  Earlier this week I had the opportunity to meet the school district's teacher for the deaf and hearing impaired children.  I asked her about sign language resources in our area (there aren't any) and she offered herself!  She loved Claire, and was so excited to see her signing.  We are in the process of getting our IFSP modified, but then this gal will meet with us once and month just to teach us new signs.  We already have plans to go to the park and the grocery store to practice signing.  I am so excited for this opportunity!!

Clairey just cracks me up.  She is such a hoot and the things she comes up with never cease to amaze me.  Her newest "trick" is to ask for milk.  We walk to the kitchen, open the fridge and she immediately goes for the cheese, yogurt, or whatever else looks  good to grab.  Apparently I need to teach her some more food signs.  :)

New Baby:  First of all, this baby doesn't have a nickname yet.  Claire's was Pip and we called her that all the time.  Nothing has really stuck this time around.

We declined the 2nd trimester blood work, and instead have a full days worth of appointments set up in a couple of weeks.  We will have a very through level two ultrasound (with the same doctor we saw with Claire) and a fetal echo (with Claire's cardio).  We know both of these doctors well, and feel very comfortable with this decision.

One of the biggest perks to being pregnant again is feeling the baby move so much earlier.  This little one's wiggles became noticeable around 15 weeks, and Darren was able to feel him/her (see why we need a nickname!) last week.

I've been feeling great, except the muscle cramps that showed up last week.  I know a lot of it is all the time sitting.  Between my desk job and all our travel time in the car, I just get stiff.  I've been getting up and moving, consuming bananas and drinking lots of water, but if anyone else has other suggestions, I'd love to hear them.

Last night I realized I'm almost half done being pregnant and we haven't even thought about names.  Since we won't find out the sex, we need to have at least one boy and one girl name.  Darren still likes our boy name from Claire.  I was undecided on it when she arrived, and for that reason was glad she was a girl. Since we had a really time agreeing with Claire, this is something we need to start thinking about!

And to finish things off, a kiss from Claire.  :)

(Please ignore the beer can in her lap.  Darren decided if she was going to rummage in the fridge every time it opened she might as well carry his beer to the living room.)


  1. I have to agree with Darren...put that girl to work. :)

    And 35! Jesenia still only does more and all done and she did milk once. The boys do a lot more than she does. I'm going to try and buy a set of Signing Time videos.

    And since Jesenia is walking all over the place I really need to get her a pair of shoes. I can't call the orthos shoes because it's only a half shoe at best.

  2. Haha love that picture! If only Russell could bring me a glass of wine without spilling it! lol
    That's cool you're waiting to find out the sex...I always liked the surprise at the end of the labor, we didn't know with any of our five what we were having.... And I love hearing how Claire is doing and everything she is up too!

  3. Awww! She is SO cute!! I LOVE the playdoh pictures in the earlier post!

  4. Ooh Claire Bear, you are a cutie pie! Smooches back at ya from Ellie!

    I love how you just blogged a summary of everything going on. Missed seeing your posts in blogland :)

    We didn't decide on Ellie's name until 12 hours after her birth, AFTER we named her Nadja and then changed it to Ellie :-P What I am saying is, you have time!

  5. That's so funny that you mentioned the Hanen class. We just had a ST session with a new gal that specializes in that. She gave us all kinds of homework to work on the next month. It sounds great! I had never heard of it till now.

    Hey Claire with all the signs! That's awesome!! :)

  6. Wow, sounds like you are super busy. I'm glad things are moving along smoothly. I'm sure your up coming appointments will go very well. And as for Claire, she's doing wonderful. She'll be walking in no time at all!

    As for names, we didn't decide until after Malcolm was born. We drove our families nuts over it!

  7. One of these days we need to get the girls together. They are so much alike, and at the same place developmentally. Arina could walk, if she would just do it! She takes 6 or 7 step, and then sits. Stinker!!

  8. Melissa, I admire your stamina and ability to do all you do. I guess that is why we have children when we are young. I could never do all that I did in my 30's now.

    Wishing you a great pregnancy and another beautiful baby.


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